Change is the only thing that is constant in the world. The lives of Generation Z are fast-paced in a digital world where being ‘in’ and ‘updated’ is important.

The Philippines is well-known to have rich traditions, cultures, and values. This was passed down through generations, but the evolving society has continuously caused a shift in our cultural makeup. It is not surprising that the current generation is slowly forgetting the rich and unique values that define us as Filipinos.

Now is the best time to teach the children our values and instill their importance as this will preserve not only our culture but also their sense of identity as Filipinos and cultivate them as better citizens of our society.

Let’s take a look at some of these cultural values that the children of tomorrow should learn!

Saying ‘po’ and ‘opo’

These words are used to show respect to elders, a person of authority, or a stranger you are speaking to for the first time. Often, every sentence ends with “po” to be polite and respectful. Be it a statement, question, or request. An example of this is “Magandang umaga po.” Saying ‘po’ or ‘opo’ can be equivalent to answering ‘yes.’

Considered one of the most basic forms of Filipino values in showing respect, this language is essential to be taught to our Filipino children not only from every household but in other external platforms that can influence a kid’s moral standards.

Pagmamano

Another way of showing respect to elders is pagmamano or the action of asking the hands of elders and then pressing one’s forehead on their offered hand. Elders will respond to this by saying “God bless you.” A widely-used culture when one is leaving or arriving home, or after not seeing their loved ones for a long time, it can also be used for elderly strangers.

Though some elders jokingly decline children’s manos as it defines their age, it is a good exercise for children to perform these simple actions to show respect not solely by words.

Valuing the family

Every time Filipinos make a big decision, their families are what comes to their minds first. They work day and night just to provide food and needs for their families. Filipinos value their families because they have an intact relationship with them through the years.

Being the most basic foundation of a child’s moral influence, family values create a lifelong avenue for children to be influenced and motivated to do good behaviors from their households to their school, community, and peer spaces.

Resourcefulness

Filipinos were known for being creative and resourceful. We find ways on how to make use of the things that we have. Teaching children to be resourceful will enable them to adapt to whatever situation they may encounter as they grow.

Resourcefulness also teaches children to be hopeful and not give up easily through critical thinking, strategic problem-solving skills, and optimistic confidence.

Pakikipagkapwa

Pakikipagkapwa means treating another person by how you treat yourself. The word “kapwa" does not have a direct equivalent in English, but the closest is ‘other person.’

But that phrase does not have belongingness in it. When Filipinos say ‘kapwa,’ they treat everyone with a sense of inclusion and warmth. Pakikipagkapwa is helping each other in times of need and welcoming everyone unconditionally, whether it be friends, families, or even strangers.

Teaching children these values helps them grow as good people and also strengthens their sense of identity as Filipinos. Learning such values from childhood instills respect, honesty, and fairness that they will live by throughout their lives.

Understanding these concepts will let them grow without any prejudice to race, gender, status, religion, and other social identities. More importantly, creating and maintaining a good, healthy social environment will help them absorb these values with ease.